Survival in a Family Business

Survival in a Family Business I want to reiterate that some family businesses are great places to work, even if you are not a family member. But some are not. A previous post gave an example of that. So You, as a non-family employee, can inadvertently be caught in these difficult dynamics. What can you do? It isn’t an easy situation but here are some Dos and Don’ts for survival. The Don’ts for survival Don’t try to mediate Being right in the middle of the fight, you might try to be helpful and offer a suggestion (“A sample run won’t take long and then you can decide”). Stifle the desire to ameliorate or fix what’s going on. First, it’s not your job to do so, and second, even if you were a mediation expert, it’s doubtful you’d be successful (because you would not be perceived as trustworthy by all parties). Don’t identify what’s really going on Avoid any comments like “Look, I can see that you and Martha are having trouble, so I’ll just come back—.” No, no, no. Bad family dynamics are often that way because no one’s willing to be honest about the problem. In fact, Martha and…

Favoritism in a Family Business

Favoritism in a Family Business The last post examined a family business not operating well. Did you pick out their problems? Favoritism is one but there are others. Favoritism or Nepotism Large companies are not always a picnic to work in, but usually the Powers-That-Be have realized the problems associated with hiring or working with a relative. Thus, it is usually forbidden. However, in a family business, it’s not only allowed but a foregone conclusion. Initially, family is probably needed because they might work at lower (or no) wages until the business takes off. And when it does, it’s only natural to extend employment to other family members. So, in our example, the mother, daughter and son are all in the business. But being family doesn’t mean having the marketing, finance, production, or organizational skills that the job requires. But it can be galling for a non-family employee—presumably hired because they did have what the job needed (like You). And, as in any company, people who can’t or won’t do their work, make it more difficult for those who want to do a good job. Non-performing workers might be fired in a larger company, but, in a family business, the…

Working for a Family Business Can Be Rough

Working for a Family Business Can Be Rough Some of us work in big corporations; others of us in small corporations; and some are employed by in a family business. I want to focus on some of the particular challenges face d by employees of the firm who are not related to those who own the business. A family-owned business can be great If you’ve been lucky, you’ve worked in a family-owned business in which both ‘family’ and ‘business’ are operating well. That is, the clan members like and respect each other. They can make the distinction between work and personal dynamics and are fairly successful in keeping the two somewhat separated. If you are employed by this kind of tribe, it can be a great place to work. You can be more or less inducted into the family and benefit from the warmth and generosity of spirit which can be produced. And then there’s the other type. Let’s do a typical interaction of this type. There are at least three points where the owners make typical mistakes. See if you can identify them. Some are not First, the cast of characters. Donna: mother and creator of a line of…