Working for a Family Business Can Be Rough

December 13, 2021

Working for a Family Business Can Be Rough

Some of us work in big corporations; others of us in small corporations; and some are employed by in a family business. I want to focus on some of the particular challenges face d by employees of the firm who are not related to those who own the business.

A family-owned business can be great

If you’ve been lucky, you’ve worked in a family-owned business in which both ‘family’ and ‘business’ are operating well. That is, the clan members like and respect each other. They can make the distinction between work and personal dynamics and are fairly successful in keeping the two somewhat separated.

If you are employed by this kind of tribe, it can be a great place to work. You can be more or less inducted into the family and benefit from the warmth and generosity of spirit which can be produced.

And then there’s the other type. Let’s do a typical interaction of this type. There are at least three points where the owners make typical mistakes. See if you can identify them.

Some are not

First, the cast of characters.

Donna: mother and creator of a line of organic skin care products

Carl: son and operations manager

Martha: daughter and finances/marketing manager

You (Sarah): the unrelated hapless employee and the production supervisor

You:Carl, we could schedule the new lotion after the batch running now. Is that okay?
Carl:What new lotion?
You:You know, the pro-biotic one.
Carl:We’re not doing that.
You:But Martha told me—
Carl:Martha? Where does she get off making decisions like that? Martha! Martha! Get in here!
Martha:Do you have to yell? What?

This is where you shut up

Carl:I never approved the pro-biotic run.
Martha:Well, somebody had to, with you at the casino. During office hours and with the company car, I might add.
Carl:I’m in charge of production. Sarah, just do the runs as planned.
Martha:Sarah, we need new products. Do the run.
Carl:I’ll fire you if you do!
Martha:I’ll fire you if you don’t!
Donna:What’s all the yelling about?
Martha:Mom, we’ve got to keep up. We need a new line of products. Everybody’s going pro-biotic.
Donna:Says the miss with the fancy degree. I built this business up from nothing and I know how to make it work.
Martha:But times are changing—
Carl:Yeah, Mom, you should think about taking your well-earned rest and let me run the business.
Martha:You run it? Run it into the ground, more likely.
Donna:Stop! We go with the regular run. I won’t hear any more about it.

Wow. And where does that leave You?

You might think that this scenario is far-fetched but it is based on an actual incident. Try to identify the mistakes this family is making. I will reveal all in the next post.

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